Just do option 3. Save the money for the lawyer for fines/insurance going up. Your first reckeless, for I assume 65/45 right?

You won't get your license suspended as long as you are polite and respectful in court. Agree with the cop and say you didn't realize you were going that fast. I wouldn't worry about it too much, myself and others have had much worse.

What did he write the ticket for? Did he say he paced you? What was the weather like? Was it a flat bridge or humped? Try and write down as many things as you can remember to go back on while everything is fresh in your mind too.