Originally Posted by
CHAHONDA
well her mother got married and i allowed her stepdad to adopt her.....so i was a 17 year old dumb ass at the time= i lost my rights
Her life > your feelings of regret
Ask the mother if it's okay, otherwise you probably shouldn't interfere in their lives at this point if you haven't been a part of it for the last 13+ years. Since you are posting this on a public message board and not contacting the mother directly, she probably already denied you contact with the underage daughter.