I park away from everyone. I like to go look at the non-common cars. Throw in a few comments about some nice looking mustangs. And talk shit to my friends about their mustangs. If you want to go then go. Some people get jealous I guess when you spend 20k+ less then them and get the same power.
Muscle/tuner/random cars peeling out of the parking lot will eventually get the meets moved to another place where they can be stupid there. Believe it or not tuners like to hear engines other than that beautiful 8, 10, or 12 cylinder rumble. As long as it is in taste rumble away. If its too loud you are too old. Or you are the police. <shrug>