+1, by far the best I've been to around here. I've been going there for 22 years. Ascension has been the model for modern Catholic churches for some time and was written about in a book as being the model for modern Catholic churches in the US. Its definitely a casual worship and great community. Check it out, I think you'd like it. They don't beg you for money either.

St Gregories is a little strict for many. I've had friends be told they can't wear certain things there before and they were wearing what few would consider out of the ordinary.

Star of the Sea at the oceanfront is also pretty laid back but there doesn't seem to be as strong of a community, especially during the tourist season.