I have two coworkers one of them has the edge and one has the FJ, both have 2 to 3 kid each. The one with the FJ drives from suffolk to NOB 5 days a week and she just got the FJ. Sorry for her she doesnt drive it to work anymore gas suck and the blind spots are too she said. She now only drives it on the weekend. As for the edge the interior is nice but they are pretty expensive, well the one she got was around 30 grand I believe. I would say go with neither. I would go with either the new tundra or highlander or maybe even the new dodge ram 1500 quad cab, my neighbor works for dodge and told me they are taking upwards to 10,000 of msrp. Also my wife picked up an 08 highlander a couple months back and it has third row seats, dont know how much it tows but its an nice SUV, and not to bad on gas. Well good look find the right SUV or maybe even truck.