what i said was that i dont have a significant other, or a group of people, that take joy in taking a strap on to me. and in my training with ROTC, we were not invited into the boot camp/gang bang, type of brief where your fellow marines initiated you and gave you warm buttermilk to take the edge off the pain in your asshole when they were done. you see. i guess that i may not take the 20 minutes after a shower to properly moisten my ass tissue, but unlike you i dont have to worry about someone grabbing an ass cheek and doing damage because of extremely dry skin. sorry to dissapoint you, but i will not be joining your anal explorations anytime in the near or distant future. so stick to your current group of leather clad fellows.