Sounds like someone needs a hug.
Consider the general demographics of this board: unemployed (or temporary wage earning) high school and college kids with lots of emotional baggage. There is not much of a social scene in this area for career-minded mature individuals with heavily modified cars.
Lots of people here talk behind my back. Their rantings only verify ignorance to those mature enough to rationally think for themselves.
No need to respond to the drama. Children are prone to tantrums. Let them cry.