let me just say this, i always race no matter what, no matter who is in my car... win or loose, it's all about the fun. (more fun in ur winnin though)
but the only time she bitched at me about racing, and told me not to race, was this 4 tone civic, packed with 5 dudes, a real sausage fest... and they started talkin shit, and i got destracted by the dude in the back, and the driver took off, i didn't go to beat um cuz i was pissed and my girl was tryin to calm me down... bout 1/16 of a mile down the street they got pulled and got a dui (drove back by after an hour of crusin and saw um gettin arrested) funniest shit ever lol... so now i pick n choose my battles more, see if it's worth it.