Originally Posted by BlawndyCivGal
good luck man...but at least you found out before you married her or she got pregnant!
words of advice: don't take her back, she will only cheat again... you need to go out A LOT with other people (male & female)... and time is all it takes... nothing is going to make you feel better... you need to fake it, act like you're over it, and time will heal ya right on up

She left because she got pregnant, and we didnt keep it. That was about 10 months ago and she hasnt come to terms with it yet. She told me she looks at me and it reminds her that she didnt have my baby. It hurts her, because we were very much in love and planning to stay together.
I wouldnt forgive her unconditionally, but I think i would take her back. Just not now.
Believe me I have every intention of getting a rebound girl to take my mind off. No way in hell am I going to sit at home thinking about her sleeping with some dude.
Im not doing it to get back at her. There is nothing to get back. We arent together so I am a free agent.