Killer post.

And like he said, I think you're an idiot for befriending your ex also. I've never had a more gratifying feeling than when I moved back to VA about 3 years ago, a friend saw my ex at the grocery store, he (bastard) told her I'd moved back and gave her my number.

A few days later (friend never told me) she calls me up.. And man, telling her to fuck off and seriously not caring one bit about her made me feel like the motherfucking MAN.