im sorry dude.......that shit sucks, wow a female auto technician, thats sexy though........................still man im sorry

 

It sucks when i train a girl up to be handy with a wrench and she goes away lol.

 

it sucks when u train her to be handy on your wrench and instead she's handy on someone elses wrench

 

ouch

 

Are the stupid little jokes really funny, when you factor in that they're at the expense of someone whose probably extremely depressed, maybe even suicidal?

How would you feel if you were in his shoes?

 

To be blunt... you're a pussy. You get burnt by one girl, and are now friends with her? Now you get burnt a second time and try to figure out "what you did" and "why she ended it". Dude... she checked out a long time ago and is feeding you scoops of shit... whatever will let you down the easiest so as you don't go psycho on her.

I know it's freaking hard but you need to sack up and get over it. Get away from her and don't call her ever again. She'll come back to toy w/ you and se if you're still "shelfed" (term similar to having you on the back burner) DON'T let yourself be shelfed man.

I've been there... it hurts, and it's hard to accept that she doen't feel the same way. Don't waste time mourning her and feeling sorry for youself. People are made up of their actions and their decisions, not who their dating. You aren't less of a person, stupid, a moron, etc. b/c one cheating whore doesn't want to be with you.

It's so easy to spout this advise out when you're a step back from the situation... when I was going throug this w/ a few exes back my best friend jammed his watch in my face and said "tell me the fukcing time" I said, "I can't" He said, " I know... it's too close." Then he pulled his watch back and said, "Now tell me the time..." That action summed it all up. You've got you head up her ass and you love her so you can't "read the time" You missed all the signs that she's not in love with you b/c you only want to acknowledge the "good" and keep the illusion that she feels the same way. Take a step back and look it from an outsiders view.

Again... sack up and get away fron the bitch. Hang out w/ your buds and do cool/fun stuff. If you rebound wrap it up... don't want anal warts from some skanky slut!

 

Killer post.

And like he said, I think you're an idiot for befriending your ex also. I've never had a more gratifying feeling than when I moved back to VA about 3 years ago, a friend saw my ex at the grocery store, he (bastard) told her I'd moved back and gave her my number.

A few days later (friend never told me) she calls me up.. And man, telling her to fuck off and seriously not caring one bit about her made me feel like the motherfucking MAN.

 

 

that kinda reminds me of me and a ex of mine....we'd break up like every 2 weeks...and as long as we werent in contact we were cool. but as soon as we started talking or saw each other boom... back together...well when we finally broke up (i.e. called off the engagement) i didnt see her for like a few months...and then i went home and guess who i ran into...

so i just tried to bang it and that was it...but she started giving me these excuses about getting emotionally re-attached and what not, so i basically gave it to her straight...gimme the ass or im hitting the road. she resisted, so i said hasta. that was in late 2000....i havent spoken to her since.

 

Two different girls.

Kim the first, we broke up it was hard. We now are friends and chat every now and then. I havent been with her since we broke up.

Current girl, shes having more probs than I'd really like to talk about. I know shes gone. Still doesnt change that I love her very much. I set things strait yesterday and yes I am going to wallow in pain a while. I really cant help it. I am seeing other people right now. Hell the day after I lined up a date. Im just the kinda guy who doesnt like to stay at home and feel bad. I rather go out and move on.

On the same token, I'd talk with monica and be her friend. I cared about her too much to not give her that change. Doesnt mean Ill forget what she did. Sure as hell doesnt mean Ill make any decisions now when I'm hurting. Ill wait untill Ive long forgotten about this bs and I already have replaced her.